Tuohy famously took in a homeless teenager in Memphis, Tennessee who would find his calling and become a football superstar. What led this wife of an entrepreneur who owned over 80 fast food restaurants to spearhead an effort to make Michael Oher a home that could not have been further from where he grew up?
How that path was paved is not completely told on screen in The Blind Side directed by John Lee Hancock (The Rookie). Tuohy sat with SheKnows at the Four Seasons Hotel in Beverly Hills after a long day of interviews with the film's cast. Stay tuned for our exclusive video interviews with stars Sandra Bullock and Tim McGraw!
After sitting amongst the hugest stars in the film and music business, the playing field leveler was Leigh Anne Tuohy. Equal parts firecracker, strong Southern woman, inspiration, motherly to all (including yours truly!), pragmatic and one-hundred percent what made what The Guess Who so perfectly called the iconic American Woman.
Leigh Anne, husband Sean and their two children, Sean Jr (SJ) and Collins, did not simply adopt Michael Oher, the engulfed him in familial love that has changed lives exponentially. With The Blind Side's arrival on November 20 in theaters everywhere, look for the inspiration to explode.
Tuohy triumph and travails
SheKnows: Hello Leigh Anne, it is such a pleasure to sit with you after witnessing your stirring story. I think the film is a strong statement for women. How do you think your story speaks to women?
Leigh Anne Tuohy: Southern women are strong natured anyway. It's kind of a characteristic. Maybe, a characteristic flaw (laughs). I'm very strong willed. I think at this point in our society and in our country right now, everybody's got to be strong willed. I think women have to wear a lot of different hats. Not only do you have to be the mother the nuturerer, but also the wife and the housekeeper and now, so many have to and want to have a career. So, you have to wear a lot of hats. I'm not a big women's liberation person - not at all - but I do think right now, women have to contribute to all facets.
SheKnows: I wondered what you thought of hearing Sandra Bullock was going to play you?
Leigh Anne Tuohy: I was thrilled. There were names and names and names that were thrown out over a year-and-a-half. It's all about timing. It was a rollercoaster. Finally, they said it was going to be Sandra Bullock. I thought, "yeah, I'm sure it's going to be somebody else." Three weeks later they called and said she signed on. I was pleasantly surprised. I fell in love with her. She did a great job.
SheKnows: For some, Virginia isn't quite "the South, " any issues with a Washington, DC suburb of Arlington, Virginia-native tackling Tennessee?
Leigh Anne Tuohy: (laughs) I think Virginia's South!
SheKnows: I'm sure Sandra does too. You had kindred spirits heading in to telling this story. One theme that arose for me from The Blind Side is how you did not really change Michael's life, he changed yours. How can you quantify in a way that your life would be different without him in it?
A family finds itself
Leigh Anne Tuohy: If Michael had not come into our lives it would have been extremely different. With all that being said, we have a different view of life now. We view everybody different than we did. We realized that there's a need out there that we didn't really know about. We were living in our own little cocoon. You tend to realize that there is a lot going on out there that you're not aware of and it brought so much to light. Even relationship aspect-wise, it all brought us closer together. We had that common bond. We went through trenches that a lot of other families don't go through.
Leigh Anne Tuohy: We came out of this as a stronger family. I'm thankful. I also think that we are so much aware of all people now and feelings and their needs. You don't know what the guy next to you has going on. He's got mud on his shoes or a tattoo. We're so quick to judge. We are so, so quick to judge. You don't know the worth of that person or what they could contribute to society. We tend to put labels on people. There's a lot of things that we've come through so much, I think, the better.
SheKnows: You're talking people judging a book by the cover, I know they show in the film, when you first meet Michael where it's cold and raining and he's wearing shorts and a T-Shirt in November. What was that moment really like?
Leigh Anne Tuohy: John Lee (Hancock, director) took some liberties with that, but the scene really happened. It was the Tuesday or Wednesday before Thanksgiving and the kids had just gotten out of school and we had been over my mom's dicing nad getting ready to cook for Thanksgiving. We were coming back home and Michael was walking and he had on shorts and it was…it's almost become an urban legend (laughs). It was a blizzard (laughs). It was chilly, it was like 40 degrees. I just commented that he looked like a fish out of water for an African-American kid to be where he was at that moment in our neighborhood. You just don't see African-American kids walking around the neighborhood at 9:30 pm at night in shorts. I said, "who is that?" SJ (her son) said, that's a new guy at our school. I thought, "what he's doing out here?" SJ told me he plays basketball. But, school was closed. Sean (her husband) wondered if maybe he had gone to shoot some hoops. I said, "turn around the car."
Fate blind-sided Leigh Ann
SheKnows: You were compelled?
Leigh Anne Tuohy: It was obvious after we turned around and chatted a few minutes that he had no mission, no plan. We thought he was going to the gym because it was warm. Sean said that the gym is not open, let us take you home. He wouldn't let us take him home, but he let us take him to a bus station about six or seven miles away. So, we drove him that night to the bus stop. Then, he went back home. Flash forward a couple weeks and that was the first time he spent the night on our coach. When I pulled over, it was a seed that was planted. I immediately knew after the conversation. I come to find out, none of that was really the truth. It snowballed. I went in on Monday after Thanksgiving and asked about Michael and who was this kid. Why doesn't he have long pants on in November? Where does he live? Where are his parents? I didn't get any of the answers I wanted yet. I just took it from there.How to find archived emails in gmail? How many videos has linus tech tips uploaded? Shared meaning during a speech occurs when both the speaker and the audience? How to find the surface area of a cone? how to get collection helper in sims 3 Easy tricks to learn how to type fast? How to get a flat stomach in a week? what is google chrome helper reddit What grade are you in at 13? What does slain mean? What does fervor mean? How to say okay in spanish? What are progressive lenses? What does ect mean? How to center an image in html? What is kirby? What time is it in kansas city? What does stay frosty mean? What is the meaning of temperature? What is the meaning behind halloween? ai starship war how to helper Ylvis the fox (what does the fox say?)? My cafe which style gives most tips? What is bupropion used for? How do pg tips decaffeinate their tea? Do what you love meaning? santas little helper simpisons ooh i know what how to install enb helper se How to draw a bunny? How to lose 15 pounds in 2 weeks? How to do magic tricks zach king? How to get replacement social security card? What do tattoo tears on face meaning? Tricks on how to write on chalk board? How to watch the chosen? How to teacg your cat tricks? How long does it take to change a tire? How long does it take to smoke ribs? French tips how to? What are discrete mathematics? How to cancel order on amazon? How to draw a gingerbread man? How to train your dragon characters? How long does it take to rehydrate? What does hearsay? What is tips law? What is prorated mean? Samsung galaxy s8 user guide tips tricks and how-tos? What is the meaning of awaited? What does ibu mean? Tips on how to grow your hair long? Why is it called q tips? What does c'est la vie meaning in english? Showing how shin lim does his tricks? How long does it take paint to dry? What is the meaning of selma? How to get bees in minecraft? who is super man's helper What does lola mean? What does it means to touch tips? How to take off apple airpod pro tips? How to turn off airpods reading messages? What is meaning of crew? what sides to make with hamburger helper How to talk to a person at the irs? What does coochie mean? what are the ingredients to hamburger helper cheeseburger mac sauce mix What does seduce means? what is "pup homepage helper" A ________ is a crescent-shaped dune whose tips point downwind? How to quit baping? How to get your crush to like you? When applicable meaning? What does bisexual really mean? Specific tips on how to draw better? What does it mean when your ovulating? What are grits made from? What does thrusting mean? What type of suffix changes the meaning of a word? What time is it in jamaica right now? How much to walk according to bmi? How to read a compass? How to watch the grammys? How can u make chop do the tricks in gta? What is the meaning of rhapsody? How to make a wrap? How to get clash mini? What time does walgreens close today? What does heather locklear look like now? How to make a wrist corsage? What does ketamine do? What is a yeast infection? how to insert helper column What is the biblical meaning of fornication? What does it mean to be tongue tied? Meaning of what hurts the most? Dark souls tomb of giants guy who tricks you? What nfl games have meaning today? Do you always hold cards in your left hand when doing card tricks? Tips on how to make a guy eat cum? What does paxlovid do? What is the sat?